I read the following article not long ago, and I could not
help but highlight the above words. Please, continue to read to have a better
understanding - The best advice ever from a good mother to her daughter!
LASTLY MY DAUGHTER, DO NOT INFORM ME OF YOUR QUARRELS, I
DIDN’T JOIN YOU TOGETHER, GOD DID, GO AND INFORM HIM AND HE ALONE WILL SORT YOU
OUT.
1. The wife that wins all arguments with her husband is not
wise. The home is not a law court.
2. The wife that uses sex as a weapon in the home - placing
embargo, going to bed in jeans shorts and trousers -lacks wisdom.
3. The wife that uses the modern trends and laws of
"women's rights" to insult or ridicule her husband simply makes a
fool of herself.
4. A woman that makes her home devoid of peace through
bickering, nagging and quarrels needs help.
A man should be eager to run away from office to be at home,
for that should be the safest and closest place on earth for him.
5. Modern-day equality in marriage does not mean
competition, It simply means partnership. Taking advantage of such equality to
turn around and become the defector head of the home and oppress the man is
tantamount to playing with fire. If you destroy your home, soon you will be the
boss of an empty home.
6. A wise wife makes the man feel so good that he assumes
that he is the head. Once he gets that feeling, the woman gently wields her
power and the head actually turns to wherever the neck wants without a protest.
7. A wife that does not pull herself away from friends'
influence and advice or even from the control of her mother and father will
have herself to blame.
8. When a man is looking for a wife, he bypasses women of
different shapes and sizes to choose a wife but soon after childbirth, many
women hide under the excuse of childbirth to let go of themselves. Many stop
bothering about their looks, shape, dressing, etc.
Within 5 years of marriage, people start wondering if the
wife is the man's aunt, even though she is 7 years younger. Her defense is that
if he truly loves her, he should love her the way she is but when looking for a
wife, he saw people like the present YOU and ignored them and settled for the
former YOU.
Today, you go to bed smelling of onions.... You go to bed wearing
grandmothers' clothes. Why are you playing with your marriage? Love is not
about looks - we know But looks enhances love and marriage There is a difference
between someone disfiguring herself and the person being disfigured by an
accident. Please don't be complacent. As hard as it may be, work on looking
like you were when he first saw you and began the chase.
9. If every night you are tired, sleepy, sore, down with
headache or fever, "not in the mood," you are a joker, a serious
comedian!
10. If your children suddenly become more important to you
than your husband, you need prayers.
11. If you assume that as the woman, only you need to be
pampered and fussed over while the man is a stone that has no emotions, you
need to be pitied.
12. A woman that has the mind of a wife does not excite her
husband. Wives are usually complacent and presumptuous. A wife must strive to
have the mind of a girlfriend, A girlfriend is always nicer, sweeter, more
loving and always thinking of ways to wow her sweetheart; a girlfriend does not
try to win all arguments, does not call the man a "useless man", is
not careless about her looks or dressing, always smiles and laughs with the
man, sends the man sweet messages and calls, etc. Are you your husband's
girlfriend in word and indeed?
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